Wednesday, July 27, 2011

the book continues...

Here is the next exciting installment of the book... Let me know what you think!

Two days earlier, my friend Bob and I had arrived in Cabo San Lucas to start a week-long vacation touring the Baja peninsula in Mexico. I am not a huge fan of the rain, having made an attempt to escape it by moving from England to California, but this particular winter had been wetter and colder than usual and I was feeling desperate for some sunshine. I had chosen to throw caution to the wind and rent a car and drive in Mexico for the first time. Bob was even more courageous for being my co-pilot and I had given him full permission to yell at me loudly if I failed to notice the odd goat, donkey or drunken caballero (Mexican cowboy) wandering into the road. The afternoon sun was shining brightly and gaily we navigated our way through the tourist towns of Los Cabos and headed north to the magical, artsy town of Todos Santos to track down our first night's accommodations.

When I travel, my preference is to seek out interesting, unique places to stay. I had found The Surf Shack on the internet and the website promised great views, tranquility and the sound of the waves to lull us to sleep; and for under $100 a night, the price was right too. We saw the sign for The Surf Shack from the main road and turned left down the dusty track feeling optimistic. “If we are lucky, we'll just make it for sunset!” I exclaimed. Then “pow”, we hit a pothole and the car bounced a foot into the air. “Hey, mind my butt,” said Bob good-naturedly! We came to a fork in the track. No signs, no-one to ask.

“What do you think, Bob? Left or right?”

“Let's try right, and see where we end up.”

Five minutes later, the track turned onto a cliff-frontage road. I'm being generous with the word road… it was still a rutted, sandy track, but at least we now saw some buildings up front, nice ones too that looked well-cared for and populated. Shortly after, we saw a big sign proclaiming our arrival the The Surf Shack. We had just made it at sunset and excitedly ran out towards the beach to catch a last glimpse of the setting sun over the Pacific ocean before finding our host, Matt, and checking in.

Ah the beach... a long, long strip of sand, absolutely pristine, deserted and marred only sporadically with the odd house on the cliff top. Pelicans still dived for a last evening meal before turning in to wherever pelicans spend the night. (Where DO pelicans spend the night?). It looked untouched and timeless and I couldn't wait to explore more.

Meanwhile we were starving hungry! Our friendly Canadian host gave us a restaurant recommendation in Todos Santos and we hopped back in the car to wind our way through the sandy maze once again, to the main road.

Todos Santos is an old town famous for its art galleries, boutique hotels and glorious restaurants. It's quickly becoming a favorite for ex-pats and snowbirds and has undergone a rapid transformation in recent years as more and more of the lovely, old buildings downtown have been renovated and re-invented. We headed to The Hotel California. Was it THE Hotel California from the Eagles' Song? Well – it is on a dark, desert highway, in Mexico... in my imagination this must have been the place. And the romance of it did not disappoint. If you happen to like cobbled-stone entrance ways, antique furnishings and crumbling red brick exteriors as I do, then this would be your cup of tea. And their new Mexican gourmet restaurant had just opened that week!

“We're in the flow, Bob” I said, “I can feel it! There's even a table for us, look!” We got seated and proceeded to the next item of business – a drink! I have to admit, life sometimes looks even rosier after a margarita! And after a long day traveling, a cocktail to welcome ourselves to our vacation was just the ticket. As we were ordering, the Belgian chef came out to chat to us. “I recommend the tuna.” he said. “Fresh caught just a few hours ago and seared lightly in my secret sauce. And as you are among our first guests, I will give you some Belgian chocolates to try as my gift to you after dinner.”

Oh I had died and gone to heaven....fabulous food, drink, ambience and chocolates too! What a great way to start our week! It was all delicious and with full, satisfied bellies, we headed back to the dusty track and our cliff-top shack.

Shack is perhaps a rather unfair description of our lodging. Matt the owner, a surfer, had built these apartments in a rather hodge-podge but nevertheless interesting style, each one being different and separated by a lovely cactus garden interspersed with hammocks and lounge chairs. They were simply yet comfortably furnished and ours had two bedrooms and a kitchen too. We got home, grabbed a sweater as the night was starting to get cool, and headed to the beach for some serious star-gazing.

Ahh – desert skies... so clear, so star-studded. “Look, Julia,” said Bob, “is that a bonfire down the beach?” A few yards away we could see what looked like a small fire outside one of the other houses. I guess it's a tribal thing, but I am always drawn to campfires. We wandered over. There was no-one there but it somehow felt OK just to sit down next to the fire and enjoy it.

Before too long a man came out. “I immediately jumped up and apologized. “Hello. I hope you don’t mind, we saw the fire and it looked so inviting. We very rudely just sat down!”

“No that's fine. You are more than welcome to join us. My name's Alan, by the way.”

“I'm Julia and this is my friend Bob.”

“Nice to meet you. And where are you guys from?”

“From Sacramento, California. We just arrived today. How about you?”

“We are all from Vancouver. Actually I live here and care-take some of the houses here on the cliff. My brother Mike is renting this one with his wife, Alice. Oh here they are…hey Mike – bring a couple of glasses out for our new friends.”

Mike appeared with a bottle of wine and glasses for us.

“Wow thanks!” I said, immediately cementing my opinion about the amazing hospitality of Canadians.

Alan stoked the fire as we huddled round, warming ourselves against the rapidly dropping desert temperatures. We shared the usual traveler formalities of how long have you been traveling, where have you been, where are you going, and discovered that Mike and Alice had just spent a few months touring South America. My attention perked up. I have spent many years traveling the globe, often alone when I was younger and for months at a time; but this was one continent I had not yet explored thoroughly.

“So what was the highlight for you?” I asked, with a very real curiosity.

“Galapagos”, said Alice, “without a doubt. It is one of the most magical places on the planet and still so pristine. And of course the wildlife experiences are phenomenal. We saw the giant tortoises, blue-footed bobbies and huge iguanas. They were so tame. If we weren't careful, we would trip over them!”

“Oh I SO want to go there,” I said, “But all the cruises I have seen are way out of my price range. They seem to run at least $5,000 for the week.”

“Not at all,” Mike chimed in. “You can get last minute deals for way less than that and if you go as an independent traveler and hang out on the beaches you will meet fishermen who will take you around at a fraction of the usual cost. We stayed a few weeks and just loved it.”

And that was it. I was inspired.

Do you know when the Divine is trying to tell you something? For me it's when I get a tingly feeling up my spine, a sense of “yes”, an excitement in my body that gets me feeling high... and I was having that feeling right then. “OK”, I thought. “I WILL go to Galapagos. And I will travel the way I used to in my twenties and early thirties, with a backpack, as an independent traveler, with no fixed agenda, no pre-booked lodging, just a map, a guidebook and a desire to see Ecuador in all its glory.”

And with that, the seed was planted.

Monday, July 25, 2011

inspiring women in washington

I am sitting in a beautiful "cabin" - think 3,000 sq ft wood mansion - in the Cascade mountains by Lake Wenatchee in Washington State. I just led a yoga retreat weekend for 8 lovely ladies all fifty something - and a couple of guys!
What struck me was how vibrant everyone was. How adult. And I mean that in the "mature" sense of the word, reflecting the inner work this group had done. 3 were therapists. It was such a pleasure to be amongst women of power who know themselves, who they are and what they want. And I do recognize that that is not the case for all women, especially the empty nesters who are needing to discover what they want to experience out of life now that the duty of motherhood can take a back seat.
The book I am writing is an invitation to ask the deeper questions:
Given a free rein and unlimited resources, what do I truly want to do?
What is MY dream?
What gives ME joy? And who?
What am I ready to release?
What do I still want to learn?
My intention is that my own journey will serve as an inspiration for others to do a similar inquiry and follow their own dreams to fulfillment.
Am getting home tomorrow and will send out more of the actual story then!

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Sea-lion inspiration

So here it is - the prelude for the book!

I should tell you all this is real – I am not making it up. It’s exactly what happened on that day at that time. I really did get inspired….

More will follow shortly...

Prelude

Dateline: March 23rd, 2011…Sea of Cortez, Mexico

It all began with the sea-lions. As our boat approached their colony in the Sea of Cortez, Mexico, the young ones jumped excitedly off the rocks and swam out to greet us, heads popping up out of the water to see who had come to play with them today. I donned wetsuit, snorkel and mask and jumped in. Holy schmolly!! That water was cold enough to freeze the tail off a donkey! Heart beating rapidly but undeterred, I gamely swam towards one of the pups. He brushed past me, twirling and swirling around with grace and joy. Then another one joined us, actually nudging me with its nose, begging my participation in his aquatic antics.

I was having SUCH fun .. until I saw a much bigger, no... make that enormous monster of a sea-lion swim rapidly towards me, mouth open, teeth bared! You can’t open your mouth and scream under water as your snorkel falls out of your mouth. Instead, adrenaline kicked in and I swam back to the boat as fast as I could, so as not to invade the big guy’s territory any more than I had already. He didn’t come after me, just swam away. But I had had my experience, and teeth chattering with cold, was happy to call it a day and climb back in the boat.

It was at that moment that I received the inspiration for this book. I cannot say it was necessarily the sea-lions themselves that gave it to me. More likely it sprung from that intensely alive, joyful feeling that was like a life-blood coursing through my veins, a sense of “can-do”, anything is possible, “it's-never-too-late” kind of feeling. And the conversation I had had two nights ago under the stars with Mike and Alice came flooding back, crystal clear in my mind with the message attached... “Yes, you WILL go to Galapagos. And you will write about the experience. And discover more about being a 50-something newly single woman with a still insatiable curiosity about the world.”

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Visit from the blogging monster


I woke up this morning far too early with a blog inside my head.

Blog blog blog, it shouted.

But I don’t want to blog! I can’t stand the thought of even one more minute on the computer!

It was very annoying and wouldn’t go away.

Blog blog blog – it persisted.

Them Mick Jagger started yelling at me…

“Please allow me to introduce myself...” (what song was that from?)

Shut up Mick – I want to go back to sleep!

“Please allow me…”

Oh all right then! Just shut up!

I will blog, even though I do not have a clue where to do it, who on earth would want to read it and how it may help.

I will blog. Just let me get back to sleep!

So here it is…

And to appease Mick – I am Julia Tindall, 53 years old, yoga and tantra teacher, resident of Sacramento, California but a Brit originally, newly single and writing a book with the working title, “ My Galapagos – a Woman’s Evolution.”

This book takes a look at the drama of my thirties and contrasts it with the menopausal years of my fifties. Who am I now, as the body changes; what gifts are there to be acknowledged and explored? And how can I live with my life with the vitality and curiosity of my younger days without compromising my wise, authentic self? In the book I look back at some of the events that shaped me in my thirties and then jump into present time with a trip (next February 2012) to Galapagos and Ecuador where I intend to travel as an independent adventurous traveler as I did in my thirties.

Yes it’s a little “Eat, Pray, Love-ish”, set in South America, but my tale has a different twist and invites a different style of inquiry. It’s funnier too.

But here is the problem. I do not consider myself a writer. I have written 2 other books but they are jnana yoga (self-inquiry) books of the self-help variety, not a story like this one, autobiographical in nature.

Now that Elizabeth Gilbert – she can write. And I admit it – she did inspire me to put pen to paper,,. wait – we don’t do that anymore – I mean whip out my keyboard and start typing – as I felt I had a more interesting story to tell and it spans not just the period of time from my romance addicted and eventually disillusioned thirties but jumps into the challenge of menopause and embraces the fabulous fifties. Oh and takes place in exotic destinations and involves lots of hot, juicy guys. And the odd bearded yogi.

So can you help? Would you be willing to offer suggestions, feedback, comments, questions as I go here?

Galapagos has been on my bucket list for quite some time and just in case the world implodes on Dec 21st 2012 I thought I’d better see it now.

But before I go, I will be filling you all in on some back story. How I ended up living in America by meeting a blind guy with a pair of shorts to his name on a beach in Mexico; how I transformed from Real Estate Agent into Spiritual Teacher; how the scary bearded yogi found me when I was shattered into many little pieces and put humpty back together again….

I’m sure there’s more but it’s still early and that’s all I can think of for now.

Finally that BLOG noise in my head has quietened down. Think I’ll try and go back to sleep….

julia tindall

www.juliatindall.com

Copyright Julia Tindall July 2011.